Also, the ladies are not so direct in expressing their feelings.
Don’t expect a traditional Indonesian girl to kiss you in public, sort of.
So if you’re planning to visit Indonesia hoping to pick up girls in malls, clubs or street with the same ease as in Thailand or the Philippines, then you are setting up yourself for failure.
I don’t doubt you know this already but it bears repeating: Approaching Indonesian girls is usually done “conservatively” while any sign of affection or touching is “strictly” behind closed doors. It all comes down to this: meet hundreds of girls behind “closed doors” on the handful Indonesian dating websites.
Some girl speaks better English than others, but in general is good practice to use unsophisticated phrases or concepts. Having said that, however, you’ll be surprised to meet many educated girls working professional jobs such lawyer, accountant or secretary with excellent English language knowledge.
If you would like to meet university girls, there are a good number of girls looking to improve their English if you don’t mind being a teacher.
Here my story: I once met a student from Bandung that wanted practice English with a foreigner for her business administration degree. We become friends and eventually, I went for a week-long holiday around West Java with her. Cupid Media Group who owns a broad range of niche websites focus on dating.
Just imagine the feeling to feel young again by going around with a young love caring student. She was so happy to practice her English with me, and I was so happy teaching her all the good and bad things. This is the best Indonesian dating site out there, with an emphasis in detecting scammers. They have got a translation service with their Gold package (US.99 per month) that can be handy if your English isn’t so great. S This site is popular in Asia, not particularly target to Indonesia so don’t expect as many girls as on Indonesia Cupid.
It’s easy to navigate, use and you can meet a wide range of girls of any age.